A Women's Identity

What is Identity? It is a word which describes who we are, but in women's life this word has a different meaning. She has no Identity of her own, as a child she is recognised by her father's name and after marriage by her husband's name. Where has her identity gone? No one knows who she is. She is always referred as a daughter or as a wife and not by her own name.

She plays many role in her life such as daughter, sister, wife, mother, daughter in law. By playing all this roles she forget who she is, what's her identity. Before marriage she plays role of a daughter and sister. She always thinks of her family, their likes dislikes and all. She forgets that she is a human being she also need to think of her likes and dislikes. At a point of time when she starts to think she gets married. After marriage priority changes and she starts to think about what her husband and in laws will like and think. She work according to their likes and thinking. At each and every point before starting anything new she has to think whether her family will like it or not, will they allow her to do anything new? All this questions goes on mind while starting any new venture and after thinking about all this she decides to quit the idea.

Though is capable of doing everything she has to be dependent on everyone. At each and every point in life she has to sacrifice everything. She sacrifices her dream, her job, her friends and many lots more. Sacrifice is another name of women. I don't understand why we women always think of others likes and dislikes. Why we can't think for ourselves? Why we don't do what we like. Why we always have to be dependent on others? Why we can't take decision on our own? We just have to adjust and sacrifice everything in life. While doing this whole life one day our life comes to an end with unfulfilled dreams and regret of not doing anything according to our will.